He and I are very much our own people. We’re not „two peas in a pod“ or „two halves of a whole.“ We are frequently found no where near each other geographically, we have hobbies that the other is completely not into, and it’s not unusual for me to say „no idea“ if someone asks me where he is. I know he’s alive and will be home tonight, that’s all I feel like I need to know.

(Sara, Offbeat Bride)